I am opening back up to writing. Moist, rainy, new life in the autumn like my winter garden.
A small excerpt of pages of field notes:
Today I told my student to have compassion and not defend herself as if she were in trouble but simply to apologize.
"She wouldn’t look me in the eyes and when I asked her to, and our eyes locked, something seemed to break inside her. Something like crying into gray, something uncomfortable and hard. I invited her to sit on the concrete with me and I put my arm around her. She cried and I stared into the wet field, the telephone wires, the cloudy sky. I am the teacher, I cannot cry. I told her she is strong and that it is strong to be vulnerable. Like mothers. Strong to feel. Strong to care. I asked her if she wanted to sit alone or with me. She said with me. The gray sky and her under my arm. Her sleek hair and her taught face. Her tears and the rain. Her tears and the rain."